Struggles in Sibling Connection

In the FosterCare system today we face many struggles which going from Sibling Connections, Education, and much more. In my life i have struggled with Sibling Connections. I didn't have a a chance to hang out with my brothers during holidays, birthdays, and just regular activities you would do when your growing up with your siblings. This was very hard for me in not seeing my brothers on a daily basics. I think most people take it for granted in what they have with there family because foster youth and children sometimes or hardly ever does have a chance for it.
You can say honestly we live a sheltered life. We are taken away from our family and friends that whom we are close to and cant make that connection until we are older and out of the foster care system. But if we have a Social Networking site we can get in contact with them. I know i have contacted people on Facebook or myspace and they cant remember who i am, and it honestly hurts that years later, after you find them, they can remember you because you up and left one day with no more contact. I think that is messed up because in a way you had no choose to leave because of what your parents has done so then you have to explain yourself which might can make you feel very uncomfortable. I know for myself before i was an All American for the NYSYIP Team and an All-Star for FosterClub. I didn't express to my caseworkers how i felt on seeing my friends, if that could be arranged and stuff like that. So just ask and let your caseworker or staff know what you want and maybe something can be done.