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Christian Carter

19 years old

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5 years in Pennsylvania's child welfare system.

Christian Carter entered care at the age of 13. He was asked to be removed from his home to ensure his safety as a queer black youth. After being removed, he was fortunate enough to find a home with two women who identify as lesbian and having a caseworker who was actively aware of the sensitivity of LGBTQ+ topics and didn’t bring it up until he was ready. This was exactly what he needed, adults who created a space of safety and comfort, allowing Christian to grow into his queerness and thrive in his identity. Now there were challenges and hardships that accrued. At the time there was high racial tension, with the deaths of Sandra Bland, Trayvon Martin, and countless other attacks on black bodies from law enforcement. This introduced conversations in the home that his mothers weren’t used to having as two white women. By fostering a young black queer child who was encouraged to be unapologetically himself opened the lens of what it meant living colorful rather than colorblind. They did have commonality being LGBTQ+ but his mothers actively educated themselves on racial issues to support Christian fully, understanding their relationship, and creating a multiracial family of love, value, and appreciation for one another. For young people who identify as LGBTQ+ within foster care, Christian states “Your chosen family is out there, people who want to invest in you and heal along with you, your chosen family doesn't have to be blood-related. Although times may be hard or confusing, learn how to advocate for yourself because no one else will do it for you as good as you will.”

Christian’s supportive adults - teachers, his mothers, and parents of friends, all invested time in him while he attended Pittsburgh Creative for Performing Arts School. Allowing him to embrace his passion for performing arts and organizing marches. In 2017, he co-led a march of 300 students from multiple school districts in protesting DeVos as Secretary of Education. Currently, Christian works for the Alliance for Police Accountability as the Lead Youth Organizer and also Co-Founded Youth Power Collective, a student-led, multi-issue based group. Christian hopes one day there is a change in the training of social workers, foster parents, and others involved in the child welfare system to have equity included in the training to gain cultural competency and bringing awareness around privilege to support LGBTQ+ youth of color.

Also, he would like to see a change in regards to the homeless population of youth within the system. He says “A lot of people have a preconceive notion of what “the youth” want but they don’t really. Learn how to engage youth voice and perspective and allow them to lead those conversations to create change, also to having funding to support the youth voice.” Lastly, be willing to listen and learn from the voices of LGBTQ+ youth and youth of color.


May 14, 2019 By Zae15


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deanna.klomp said:

I was inspired buy your story Christian. we have a lot of stories that don't go way we would like it to. even though we pray for our children. alot give up on their self before and all they think is I'm going back no matter what. It's all they want to know. so to see this story I'm so PROUD of YOU. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story!
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JasmineM said:

I love your story Christian. there is so many unsuccessful stories within the Child Welfare System. you have one of the good ones. the most exciting parts for me was that your foster parents took the time out to understand and learn about the racial issue you had. thank you for sharing your story and congratulations on everything you have accomplished so far and everything in the you achieve in the future.