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When Giselle was 15, her mother brought her to the United
Statesto Brooklynfrom Tobago to escape her abusive
father. Giselles mother left her with family friends
and returned to Tobago.
The
arrangement Giselles mother had made with the family
friends was that when she could afford to, she would send
money to the family to care for Giselle. But the currency
rate was so low that the money she sent covered very little,
and Giselle went without a lot of necessary things. The family
Giselle was living with also cared for their own niece, who
was abusive toward Giselle, and Giselle wouldnt fight
back, and the family wouldnt intervene.
One
day Giselle decided she couldnt take it anymore and
talked with a teacher who introduced her to another girl in
her school also from Tobago. Giselle met the girls family,
and upon hearing of Giselles situation, the girls
mother invited Giselle to live with them. She stayed there
until her father came to the United States and became abusive
to her again. Someone called Child Protective Services, and
Giselle was put into a diagnostic center. After awhile there,
she was so well-behaved that they found her a foster home
where she lived for two years.
After
some soul-searching, Giselle decided to reconnect with her
mother and still keeps in touch with her. Her mother still
lives in Tobago, but she comes to the United States often,
and they talk often.
ACHIEVEMENTS
Giselle now cares for her teenaged sister who came to live
with her when she was 14. Shes 16 now. She doesnt
want her sister to go into foster care so she has taken on
responsibility for her. Giselle says it can be difficult at
times because her freedom is curtailed. "But we make
it through," she says.
While
doing this, Giselle works as an organizer/trainer for Voices
of Youth (VOY). VOY is a project designed to "make foster
care a more supportive experience for teens so they are better
prepared for the transition out of care." VOY does this
by integrating young people in care into training, curriculum,
and planning for agencies and their staff.
Giselle
has had her work published in Foster Care Youth United and
has won many awards, including the Urban Heroes award in 1998.
Giselle
runs a childrens group in her community and is a graduate
of Public Allies/NY and is enrolled at John Jay College.
CURRENT WORK
As a youth organizer/trainer for Voices
of Youth, Giselle makes sure the youth in the program
have their needs met and trains and prepares them for speaking
events where they talk to child welfare staff and other youth.
She also does some public speaking herself and supervises
two interns.
PLANS FOR FUTURE
Giselle would like to become a lawyer who works with children
and families. But first she wants to get a Masters Degree
in Social Work.
INSPIRATION
"I have a really strong support group through church
and being active in church. Lots of people have been my inspirationlike
my high school teacher. My teacher is still my cheerleader.
Shes been doing that since high school. God is also
my inspiration. A lot of times a human cant help me.
So I spend time singing and praying. And its nice to
now have supervisors who know what its been like for
me. Voices of Youth has been really good for me."
ADVICE TO YOUTH TRANSITIONING INTO
ADULTHOOD
"Plan. Dont wait for your agency staff to plan
for you. Start planning now what you want to be. Take advantage
of the opportunities out there for you. Take the risk; take
the chance."
FAVORITE BOOKS
Messages to Young People. By Ellen G. White.
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