Dan O’Brien is considered by many as “the
world’s greatest athlete”. His specialty is the decathlon,
a collection of ten track events that includes the high jump, long
jump, pole vault, javelin, discus, shot put, the 100, 400, 1500 meter
runs, and the 110 meter hurdles. The decathlon is a grueling two-day
test of endurance, will power, speed, agility, strength, athletic
ability, and is one of the most difficult events in the Olympics.
Dan O’Brien world class achievements in the decathlon include:
- 1996 Olympic Gold Medalist
- Three-time World Champion 1991, 1993 and 1995
- Five- time consecutive US Champion
- 1994 and 1998 Goodwill Games Champion
- Longtime Holder of the Decathlon World Record with 8,891
points
These and his many other track records didn’t come easy
for Dan – he had many obstacles to overcome.
Dan Dion O’Brien was born on July 18, 1966 in Portland,
Oregon. His birth father was African American and his birth mother
was Finnish and white, and at the time of his birth, both were
college students. They decided that they were not in a good situation
to make a home for a child, so they gave him up for adoption. The
sixties marked the beginning of the Civil Rights Movement in the
US, and in those days, it was very difficult to find homes for
mixed race babies. Dan was not adopted right away, and spent the
first years of his life in a succession of foster homes. Even at
such a young age, lessons Dan learned in foster carried forward
into his life.
Dan’s adopted parents tell how, when he was little child,
Dan never cried. His experience in foster care taught him it was
better not to cause trouble, so he didn’t cry when he wanted
his own way or when he was in pain. His mom says that it was like
someone taught him not to cry- he would make little noises like
crying, but tears never came out. Even as an adult, Dan says he
has difficulty expressing emotion.
Another experience in foster care that Dan carried to his adopted
home was that he always wanted someone around. His parents say
that when he was little and they left him with a baby sitter, they
would have to assure him over and over again that they would return
back home. They feel his insecurity was the result of other parental
figures in foster care who said good-bye, then Dan would not see
them again.
Dan grew up in Klamath Falls, Oregon in a converted barn with
nine bedrooms. There was plenty of room for the white couple, the
O’Briens, who adopted him, their two natural children, and
their other 6 adopted kids. Dan’s brothers and sisters included
an American Indian, an African American, a Mexican American, two
Korean Americans. Dan was the youngest in this multi-ethnic household.
One of the many advantages he received growing up in such a diverse
household, Dan says, was that it cultivated his great interest
in all cultures. One of the difficulties growing up in such diversity
was that he felt he had no role models. Although he loved them
very much, he knew he was different from the other members of the
household. He knew he didn’t fit in. He wasn’t black
and he wasn’t white.
As time went on and Dan learned more about black culture
and met other multi-racials, he learned that it “fitting
in” did not matter to him so much.
Dan’s dad talks about his son’s childhood with enthusiasm.
He relates that when other two year olds were toddling around,
Dan was jumping off tables and running around the yard. He had
great physical coordination and a lot of energy, too. As Dan grew
older, school work came easily, although his teachers reported
he was somewhat hyperactive. Sports was a great way to work off
his energy. Dan was growing very tall and muscular and in high
school, he excelled in football, baseball, basketball and track.
He had natural ability. He didn’t have to work too hard to
excel. He had enough natural intelligence so he could get away
without studying in class. He was too restless and too distracted
to concentrate on studies, anyway.
By the time he was a senior, Dan was an athletic standout. He
was All-state in football and in basketball. In track, his performance
was spectacular. He was 6 feet 2 and 180 pounds. He was fast and
strong and seemed to excel in any sport he tried. It seemed natural
for him to try the decathlon. Before the school year ended, Dan
entered the USA Junior Decathlon Championships and placed fourth
even though he hardly knew shot put, discus, javelin, and pole
vault.
Dan was off to University of Idaho on a college scholarship. He
had hoped for other scholarship offers, but his grades were not
impressive. He had never really studied and he wasn’t a good
college risk. At Idaho, he was a very good athlete, a very nice
kid, but had never been away from home and was mostly interested
in parties and having fun. He didn’t study. His grades got
worse and worse and finally made him ineligible for team sports.
Finally, still partying, Dan lost his college scholarship. He was
out on the street, depressed, and too ashamed to go home.
He was rescued by his former coach who helped him enroll in a
local junior college, work full time and train. Dan really paid
for all those party days. He learned to work hard and forget about
socializing for awhile. Around this time, Dan also learned that
his difficulty concentrating on school subjects was ADHD (attention
deficit hyperactivity disorder). He doesn’t consider that
an excuse for failing out of school, but it helps him understand
what was happening to him during those early college years. Today,
instead of using prescribed drugs, Dan uses natural techniques
to overcome ADHD.
Dan O’Brien went on to compete in decathlons setting world
records by overcoming obstacles, mostly physical injuries. Today,
he devotes time to the Dan O’Brien Youth Foundation “to
show kids it’s cool to get your work done instead of goofing
off and being a jerk. There are three programs: The Citizenship
Decathlon, a ten-week program modeled after the decathlon; the
Work Hard In School Program for at-risk kids; and the Summer Decathlon
Challenge. They all offer programs that provide strategies to turn
failure into success”
DAN SAYS: (to Zaslow, and advice columnist for the Chicago Sun
Times)
* Breathe deep when facing a challenge: “It helps with test-taking,
giving speeches, sports. Get a cue word, like ‘relax’.
Take a deep breath through your nose, fill your diaphragm, hesitate,
then exhale and say the word. Do it 30 to 50 times. You can lower
your heart rate in seconds.”
• Carry goals in your pocket: “That lets you know
what you’re working for every day.”
•
Talk to yourself: “Ask people what they were thinking in
a race and a lot say, ‘gosh, I don’t know’. It
helps to get a rhythm in your head. In the 100 meters, I’ll
think, ‘Quick, quick, quick! Boom, boom, boom!’ It
helps.”
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